I guess that’s what keeps us going… those unexpected bumps in the road that pop up in our lives and poof!… we’re suddenly headed off in a new and unexpected direction. Do we let them control us or do we reach for the reins and get back on course? That, my friends, is the important question. Who is in control after all? I’m sure I’ve shared this before, but it’s worth retelling… the time my wife asked a psychic whether those roadblocks in life were signs to turn back or obstacles to be overcome. They are, said the psychic, whatever you want them to be.